We talk a lot about romance outside of the bedroom, but what does a romantic interlude look like?

“I wish my partner were more romantic in bed” is a statement we often hear from women.

“Are you kidding me?” is a retort we often hear from men. “I thought we were done with all the jumping through hoops after we got married.”

While it is true that many men feel as described, it’s also true that both men and women appreciate romance and thoughtfulness in relationships. Bringing romance to a relationship will differ for everyone but based on our experience, there are 4 important elements for adding spice to the bedroom!

Let’s break down each of these steps!