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Episode 445: “Sex Positions”

Welcome to another engaging episode of the Foreplay podcast. In today’s episode, “Sex Positions”, we dive deep into the world of intimacy and connection. Today, hosts Dr. Laurie Watson, a renowned sex therapist, and George Faller, an experienced couples therapist, unravel the adventurous world of sexual positions. Inspired by an insightful article from Men’s Health, we’ll explore creative positions like “Stand and Deliver,” “The Pearly Gates,” and more, each designed to enhance pleasure and connection.

Join us as we discuss the joy of experimenting with positions such as “The Socket,” “The Happy Baby,” and even the daring “69 Bridge.” Along the way, we’ll share plenty of laughter, the importance of safety, and some personal insights into making these experiences both fun and intimate.

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Show Notes

Unique positions incorporating fun and playful elements

  • Stand and Deliver
  • The Pearly Gates
  • The Hot Seat, Spin Cycle, Pole Position, Lazy Man
  • The Socket, Happy Baby, 69 Bridge
  • The Captain, The Waterfall

Safety and Practicality

  • Humorous anecdotes about personal space constraints and the challenges of certain positions.
  • Emphasis on mutual consent, creativity, and understanding personal limits.

Intimacy and Connection

  • Discussing how trying new positions can lead to laughter and a deeper connection
  • Encouraging couples to see the fun in experimentation and not just technical success.

Transcript

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George Faller [00:02:02]:
Content is not suitable for children. Let’s expand our imagination. Lori we’re going to get into sex positions you’ve never heard of today.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:02:10]:
Ooh, I can hardly wait to hear about them. Welcome to Foreplay sex therapy. I’m Dr. Lori Watson, your sex therapist.

George Faller [00:02:20]:
And I’m George Fowler, your couples therapist.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:02:22]:
We are here to talk about sex.

George Faller [00:02:24]:
Our mission is to help couples talk about sex in ways that incorporate their body, their mind, and their hearts.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:02:32]:
And we have a little bit of fun doing it. Right.

George Faller [00:02:34]:
G, listen. And let’s change some relationships, okay?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:02:38]:
Our summer school break. Sex positions.

George Faller [00:02:42]:
Sex positions. Well, we’re checking out an article in the Men’s Health by Ian Karna, who.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:02:50]:
Is a sex therapist and very famous sex therapist for his book, she Comes First.

George Faller [00:02:57]:
She Comes First. And now he’s talking about 56 fun and new sex positions to be adventurous in the bedroom. So, you know, I thought there were only like five of them. So this is. I’m gonna learn something here today, Lori. Well, let’s get the.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:03:14]:
Stretch your imagination here, George.

George Faller [00:03:16]:
Listen, we all. We know. We got. We got the missionary style, we got the doggy style, we got the on top style. You know what else? What are the basics? We have Laurie.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:03:26]:
Yeah, yeah.

George Faller [00:03:26]:
That I think most people would be familiar with.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:03:29]:
Sure. Maybe sometimes cuddling in bed. Right. On a lazy. A lazy night, just from behind.

George Faller [00:03:37]:
All right. The cuddle in from behind.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:03:40]:
Yep.

George Faller [00:03:41]:
Well, let’s. Let’s blow our minds, okay. Come up with some more stuff. We’re gonna put the link in, right. So people can kind of go through this. I mean, there’s so many. We’re not going to cover them all. I just want to be kind of just some fun ones I’ve never heard about Lori.

George Faller [00:03:56]:
So what do you think?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:03:57]:
Yeah, I think so. So which ones have you never heard about, George? Let’s go there first.

George Faller [00:04:01]:
Well, how about. We’ll go for the first ones.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:04:04]:
Yeah.

George Faller [00:04:04]:
How about we stand and deliver?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:04:07]:
Stand and deliver. Woman on the bed. Man standing kind of on the side. Looks like they’re on the corner of the bed. Which works. Yeah. So this is like deeper penetration often.

George Faller [00:04:20]:
And that’s a good thing.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:04:22]:
And that can be a really good thing. Yeah, it can. Do you know that a woman has another spot in her vagina, George? Not just the. The G spot, but the A spot, which is, like right before the cervix, the. The roof of her vagina. And this position could kind of get that, too. So there’s, like multiple places in her vagina that can feel really good. So this one, this penetration one could do that.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:04:46]:
And so, yeah, could be good.

George Faller [00:04:49]:
How about the Pearly Gates? Laura, you want to describe that one?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:04:53]:
I can’t. My screen went blank. I can’t see it.

George Faller [00:04:57]:
Oh, you gotta get that screen up and running.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:04:59]:
Oh, there it is. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, this one. Wow. Okay, so this is. The giver is on their back and the receiver kind of straddles them, but lies all the way back on their chest. That. That seems like.

George Faller [00:05:16]:
Oh, they’re laying on their back.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:05:18]:
The woman is lying on her back on top of his chest.

George Faller [00:05:22]:
Yes.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:05:23]:
And has scooched down so that they’re having intercourse. And the good thing is, is they can use a vibrator in this position. I think you’d have to, like. It would be a certain type of couple that could do this position. Their anatomy would have to really work for this position.

George Faller [00:05:40]:
Or they have to be gymnastic. But it’s imagine. Imagine doggy style. But laying down on top of each other as you do that.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:05:49]:
Yeah. You probably would have to start in reverse cowgirl. Right. So you start in reverse cowgirl. She’s on top, looking at his feet, and then she just kind of lies back. It would be hard, though, to thrust in that position, don’t you think?

George Faller [00:06:04]:
I think she might be doing the thrusting.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:06:06]:
Yeah. I think this is the position that just kind of is for her. Because he can touch her nipples. He can touch her clitoris, probably, maybe if he has monkey arms. I don’t know.

George Faller [00:06:17]:
I think with all these, it’s worth a shot. You can laugh about it if you can’t do it right, but you can try it.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:06:23]:
It’s worth a shot. Exactly.

George Faller [00:06:25]:
I’ve never even heard. Is the next one the socket?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:06:28]:
The socket. I gotta say, I have never tried the socket. This is like a position where the man is lying on his back. She is essentially on her belly. They’re connected. So it was sort of like reverse cowgirl. But then I’m not sure. It’s like her legs are behind her.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:06:53]:
Yeah. So this is. This is an interesting one. She’s holding a plank.

George Faller [00:06:58]:
Yeah. But they’re, you know, their heads are on opposite sides of the bed.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:07:01]:
Yeah, Opposite sides of the bed. And this is a good one if you’re into spanking, is what they say.

George Faller [00:07:07]:
Oh, all right.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:07:10]:
I can see that. Okay. Happy baby.

George Faller [00:07:13]:
I know Laurie’s tried this one. The happy baby.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:07:16]:
The happy baby. Okay, so this one is. Let’s see. Woman on her back, legs up. Man in front of her on his knees. And you can use this for both vaginal and anal penetration. And it’s good for G spots stimulation. Ooh.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:07:38]:
And it’s also comfortable if you have lower back pain. Also, just for the record, missionary position. They say this as well here, but I’m going to reiterate it that, you know, like a sex pillow, a flat pillow underneath your hips, kind of changes the angle of really the way you connect. It’s not just the angle of your vagina, but the way you connect. So if you, you know, if he’s too deep and he hits your cervix, that’s a really good one. And it kind of can. It can increase connection with your G spot. But this one, Happy Baby.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:08:09]:
Like, it does look really comfortable. Right? Happy Baby is a yoga pose.

George Faller [00:08:13]:
Yeah.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:08:14]:
Yeah.

George Faller [00:08:15]:
I was just randomly picking some out here. This one, I don’t think. I don’t. This one looks like a stretch to 69 Bridge.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:08:23]:
The 69 Bridge.

George Faller [00:08:25]:
So think about a regular 69, except the person on top is bending over backwards. So how do you make that one? Unless you’re a contortionist? Like, that one seems a pretty tough one.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:08:38]:
This one is definitely gymnastics. Right? Like she’s doing a back bend essentially in order to reach his penis and he’s. Yeah, it’s sick. Yeah, this is. This is. This one probably is impossible, but this.

George Faller [00:08:55]:
Would be easier for her to enjoy oral sex in that position.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:09:00]:
In that. Instead of physical.

George Faller [00:09:02]:
No, I’m saying let’s say she’s not doing the bend and she’s just sitting that way.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:09:05]:
So she’s just on top of him.

George Faller [00:09:07]:
Right. But on top. Right. With her.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:09:12]:
No. No back bend involved. No, Just receiving. Receiving. Yeah. Yeah. Basically. Woman on top of his face. Right. All right, all right.

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George Faller [00:12:26]:
I like the captain position.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:12:28]:
George is reading while he’s, while he’s doing this podcast. So he’s not as talkative. The captain position. I gotta get to the captain. Okay, so we’ve got her legs out like a V and he’s kind of on his knees, which are also spread. And he’s inside her that way. Yeah. So.

George Faller [00:12:48]:
And every once in a while he lets go of holding her head, her.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:12:52]:
Head, her leg, her ankles.

George Faller [00:12:54]:
Any salutes? Right, because that’s part of the captain position. You’re in charge. You just got to make sure everything. The ship is still sailing. Right. And she’s got to call him captain.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:13:06]:
And she’s got to call him captain. That’s part of the whole thing. Aye aye, captain.

George Faller [00:13:10]:
Aye aye, Captain, what do you think about the waterfall then?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:13:14]:
Yeah. Oh, wow. The waterfall. Okay, so this is a guy who is kind of slid down a mattress, it looks like, and she’s kind of perched on top of him. You know, George, if I were a man, that. That would feel a little precarious.

George Faller [00:13:31]:
I. I’m thinking vertical when I see this.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:13:33]:
You think it’s vertical? I don’t get it.

George Faller [00:13:36]:
I love this one. Seems like it’d make me dizzy. But again, I think it’d be a cool vantage point to see something different.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:13:42]:
It’s like you’re upside. Oh, so you’re seeing her upside down. So that would be exciting. Yeah, but I guess I just worry, like, if she slid at all, she could. She could hurt him.

George Faller [00:13:52]:
Well, if she’s feeling too good, she might kick him in the face, but that.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:13:57]:
True, true. That could happen as well.

George Faller [00:14:00]:
People are thinking outside the box here, Laurie.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:14:02]:
People are definitely thinking outside the box. What about this position? One up. Looks like he’s given her oral sex and she’s got her leg up. I’m not sure. Is it both legs up? Maybe it’s just that he’s on the side of the bed, so he’s kind of in good position for this. I don’t get why you would have one leg up. That’s interesting.

George Faller [00:14:27]:
And we’re just going down this list. This is Laura’s. Heard of most of these? I have not. Guess that says something. Have you heard of the hot seat before? Get on the hot seat.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:14:38]:
I have seen the hot seat, but I’ve never heard it called the hot seat. So this is a man behind a woman, on top, but facing away from them. So it’s like reverse cowgirl seated. Yeah, that could be good, right? Especially if. If your knees are problematic, you know, you can kind of sit. That would be good.

George Faller [00:15:00]:
So the next one is the spin cycle.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:15:03]:
Wait, wait, don’t go so fast.

George Faller [00:15:05]:
We’re trying to understand the difference between the hot seat and the spin cycle.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:15:09]:
Okay, where’s the spin cycle?

George Faller [00:15:11]:
The next one down.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:15:13]:
I have to help people understand what we’re seeing. So the spin cycle is very much the same. What makes it different? Oh, this time you do it on a washing machine. I have got to say, wash machines, I have heard are. I have heard doing it on a washing machine is kind of the best thing, because it’s this general vibration, I.

George Faller [00:15:39]:
Guess, is that you’re hearing from women.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:15:43]:
I am hearing that from women.

George Faller [00:15:45]:
Yeah.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:15:46]:
Yeah.

George Faller [00:15:47]:
Hey, we just did a podcast on how do you increase a man’s Orgasm. Who knows what the hell does vibrate? Might shake it out of you.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:15:57]:
Yeah, I think, I mean, like my. My laundry room. My husband’s head would hit the ceiling. I don’t know that. That might be a little difficult one for us to pull off. What about you? Do you. Yeah, let’s see. I know what your laundry room looks like.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:16:12]:
You probably have enough room to do this.

George Faller [00:16:15]:
Well, you might have to do an addition on your house to kind of take care of that problem.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:16:19]:
Yeah, yeah. Right. And there was a show on that, right? A sex room show. I think they should come and do my house, a sex room show. You know, on that. That would be great.

George Faller [00:16:31]:
You got a volunteer?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:16:32]:
Yeah, I would have to volunteer.

George Faller [00:16:36]:
That would be behind the scenes. I’m sure a lot of people would want to see the behind the scenes of Lori Watson.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:16:42]:
Yeah, for sure.

George Faller [00:16:44]:
All right, well, let’s come back. We’re only getting started on this list. Look at all this. There is to talk about.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:16:50]:
37 to go.

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George Faller [00:18:11]:
All right, Laurie, we’re coming right back into it. How about the pole position? That sounds pretty. Pretty cool.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:18:18]:
Oof. Otherwise known as the thigh master. He says. So it is kind of like reverse cowgirl, but she’s supporting herself with a leg, like a bent knee up between his legs. So what is so great about this? For the. For the person giving. The person giving intercourse. I guess that’s an interesting way of putting it.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:18:45]:
Great view of her behind. What do you think of that? G?

George Faller [00:18:50]:
Interesting.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:18:52]:
Interesting. Yeah. And I guess she can use her leg to thrust, right? She can use the strength of her leg to thrust.

George Faller [00:19:00]:
Well, listen, if the pole position sounds great, but it’s too tiring, the next one is the Lazy Man. That’s more my speed. Let’s talk about the lazy Man.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:19:09]:
Lazy Man. Okay, so this is the squat thrust. Basically, woman on top. A guy maybe with his. It’s on the bed. Looks like his back against his pillows, his legs stretched out. And she’s kind of up against him with her thighs open, like feet on the bed. Yeah.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:19:33]:
That’s doable. Right? And he can kiss her, I guess if he has a long enough neck, he can kiss her breasts and they can kind of thrust like that.

George Faller [00:19:44]:
Well, what I like about a lot of these positions.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:19:47]:
Why do you like that? What. What do you think that’s good about the Lazy man?

George Faller [00:19:50]:
I. It just sounds good.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:19:53]:
Just lazy.

George Faller [00:19:54]:
You’re too tired doing some of these other positions that are stretching like. Gumby, I gotta say, you’re.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:20:00]:
You’re kind of disappointing here. This I’m always so tired part of you.

George Faller [00:20:05]:
Well, listen, it’s you. You keep talking about you need to stretch this thing out. So if you want, like a powerful 15 minutes, that’s stiffer than stretching out into a luxurious two hours, if you’re gonna kind of stretch it out, you need these Lazy man moments where you could. And what I like about this, you know, again, I don’t know about you, but doing a squat thrust kind of hurts. I don’t really wanna be working out too long during sex, so I’m gonna need these moments to reset and from. I didn’t know about this. You can lie back and turn it into the spider position or the exposition. Right.

George Faller [00:20:41]:
Which is really kind of wild. It’s just different twists on this position. On this position?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:20:49]:
Yeah. I will have to get to the X. I don’t know what they’re talking about with the X. Okay, how about the sex position? David Copperhill, that Copperfield. That looks a lot like that last position that we talked about. It’s basically her receiving oral sex with her legs up. I’m sure the difference between her legs up and one leg up.

George Faller [00:21:13]:
Well, if we go to the close for business position. Right. That’s oral sex, but with her legs closed.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:21:20]:
Close for business. With oral sex. How do you do that?

George Faller [00:21:24]:
I don’t know. Is it just kind of make it. You’re teasing her more with that one.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:21:31]:
Oh, this is the position. Close for business. Okay. So she keeps her legs closed, and he basically opens her labia to give her oral sex. Yeah. She’s a little less vulnerable that way maybe, but she still gets all the stimulation she needs. Yeah, that’s. That could work.

George Faller [00:21:52]:
All right.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:21:53]:
I think a lot of times, too, you know, sometimes women don’t open their legs. I think you talked about this recently in an episode until they’re kind of ready, but obviously with permission. And this could be good.

George Faller [00:22:05]:
Could be a good starter.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:22:07]:
Could be a good starter. Awesome.

George Faller [00:22:08]:
It’s closed for business and you’re trying to kind of see if you can get the owner to open up the shop.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:22:14]:
Yeah. And they say the public mound. I think they meant the pubic mound in the article. But like a hand firmly on the mons, you know, is indirect pressure. And obviously oral sex, Very direct stimulation. But maybe starting with indirect pressure would kind of get her warmed up.

George Faller [00:22:35]:
I like the next one, the pretzel.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:22:38]:
The pretzel. That’s. That’s my favorite position. The pretzel.

George Faller [00:22:42]:
Nice. Look at that. We found common ground. Lowering off. Right. So you get. It’s kind of similar to doggy style because you’re coming from behind, but you can still make eye contact and kind of check each other out.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:23:00]:
Yeah, exactly. So you’re kind of twisted up here. In this one, he’s on his knees. She’s kind of. Wow, she is pretzeled in there, isn’t she? So she’s got one leg between his legs and one leg over a hip, but she’s laying on her back.

George Faller [00:23:22]:
I’m sending this to my. My wife right now. This link.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:23:27]:
This is the one we should try tonight.

George Faller [00:23:30]:
I’m sending all 57, but what the hell? Gotta be some new ones in a press.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:23:36]:
It’ll have to be on a night that you got some energy, buddy.

George Faller [00:23:40]:
Hey, listen, it’s. You gotta learn how to conserve energy so you can choose your spots.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:23:46]:
I like the next one. Yourself on a shelf. Kind of a play on the elf on the shelf. Yeah, yeah. Basically her. Her up higher, perched somewhere, maybe the edge of the bed. But this is very similar. She’s.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:24:01]:
Rather than laying back, she’s sitting up. So maybe she’s gotta hang on a little bit tighter. This actually shows a man standing up. This is all. This is the movie pose. Right. He’s always, like, got her. He’s holding her up with his biceps.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:24:18]:
He’s on top and.

George Faller [00:24:20]:
Yeah.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:24:20]:
And he doesn’t want to drop her because if he drops her, you know what’s going to happen. Right.

George Faller [00:24:25]:
She’s going to break a chin.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:24:26]:
This is going to. He’s going to not have a penis.

George Faller [00:24:29]:
It comes off with the fall.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:24:31]:
What’d you say?

George Faller [00:24:33]:
It comes off with the fall.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:24:34]:
It comes off with the fall. So you got to really be strong to do that one.

George Faller [00:24:38]:
All right.

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George Faller [00:25:35]:
Well, we get doggy style. What about the flat iron? Lori?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:25:39]:
The flat iron. Okay, we already did doggy style. We talked. That’s an. That’s a normal one.

George Faller [00:25:46]:
It’s just doggy. But the partner on the bottom lays down.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:25:50]:
Yeah. Rather than on her knees. So she’s just. But he’s kind of supporting himself with his arms. He’s not laying on top of her. So it’s not the lazy doggy style. It’s. He’s.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:26:01]:
He’s supporting his own weight.

George Faller [00:26:03]:
And supposedly that intensifies vaginal pressure.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:26:09]:
What about this butter churner?

George Faller [00:26:11]:
That one seemed like it hurts.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:26:16]:
I can’t even imagine how they’re doing this. It’s like he’s in a permanent squat position and she’s in the, like, yoga bicycle position.

George Faller [00:26:26]:
These are the positions why I talk about Lazy Man. There’s just not much. How long can you last in that position before you need Lazy Man?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:26:33]:
Yeah. Here’s the ballet dancer. This is a good position. So it’s standing. She’s got one leg wrapped around his hip and he’s inside her. So you got to be the right height here. You got to have the. You both got to be similar height.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:26:49]:
I think for this one to work the ballet dance, it’s standing up sex. This is why.

George Faller [00:26:55]:
Well, a lot of them are just different names. Similar. The Iron Shaft. The hto. Yeah. How about the wheelbarrow you think you could pull that one off?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:27:06]:
Let’s see. Wow. Wow. That’s another gymnast move. So that’s. He’s standing up. This is like, you know, kid races, you know. Did you used to do this in relay races when you were a kid? Yeah, wheelbarrow races.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:27:22]:
You’d, like, hold your buddy’s legs, but this is holding your partner by the hip and kind of coming in and having sex, and she’s supporting herself on her arms.

George Faller [00:27:30]:
Like, I wonder if she could. If you could walk around the room doing that. What do you think?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:27:36]:
You can stroll around the house.

George Faller [00:27:38]:
Stroll around the house or draw the shades.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:27:40]:
They say first. Okay, yeah, you gotta have some arm strength there to do this.

George Faller [00:27:45]:
And if you get tired, you just adjust and you turn it into deceited wheelbarrow.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:27:49]:
But wheelbarrow fits our summer camp, you know, theme right here. Because it’s like wheelbarrow races like we used to do at summer camp. So that’s a good one. Seated wheelbarrow. Same thing. Woman kind of line hanging over the bed. He’s seated. He’s.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:28:06]:
That seems like it would. There would not be enough traction. I’m sorry to, like, diss this. I guess it’s worth a try. All of them worth a try. For sure. Standing dragon. There we go.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:28:16]:
That’s kind of doggy style. He’s standing up on the bed. She’s on all fours.

George Faller [00:28:21]:
I’m really enjoying that series. Right? The dragon. Game of Thrones, whatever it’s called.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:28:26]:
Oh, yeah.

George Faller [00:28:27]:
Just calling the standing dragon. Maybe you can make some dragon sounds as you’re doing the standing dragon. Just again, increase the levels of engagement. The couch.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:28:39]:
Another good thing to do while you’re bonding this summer. Right. Is watch a good classic movie. Okay, so let’s. Let’s wrap this up. Any last special one. That looks really good.

George Faller [00:28:51]:
Well, just reading through it. The mountain climber again. Seems like a workout, but we need a workout sometimes. The spoon position. You talked about that one.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:29:00]:
Yeah, that’s the. That’s the one I was talking about. The lazy kind of. From behind. You’re both.

George Faller [00:29:04]:
But that’s okay for you to say. The spoon position is nice, but when I say it, I’m being lazy. Huh?

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:29:11]:
Well, I was saying when both people feel lazy, it’s okay.

George Faller [00:29:15]:
The sport. The spork position.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:29:18]:
The spork position. Different. It’s kind of like scissoring. Okay, well, I.

George Faller [00:29:28]:
The last one. Laurie, I just want you to look at one more snow angel. The snow angel.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:29:33]:
I want to see the snow angel. Whoa. Okay, so this is. I. I don’t know how they’re getting together here. Maybe this is a lesbian couple.

George Faller [00:29:48]:
It’s a twist.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:29:49]:
Okay, so they are. They are in missionary style and they try to stay inserted. And they, like, do a 180 switching around. I don’t know how that would work. Do you know how that would work, George?

George Faller [00:30:06]:
I don’t. That’s why I went to the professional, my. Dr. Lori Watson.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:30:10]:
Dr. Lori Watson, to explain.

George Faller [00:30:12]:
But it’s. It’s nice. It’s nice to know there’s positions out there that Dr. Lori Watson doesn’t know.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:30:17]:
I do not know. The snow angel. Sorry about that. But I think the whole point of it is we’re in summer and we got to switch it up and switching positions. You know, I know most everybody does, like you said, the first four or five positions because they work and that’s good, and that’s fine. But on a play night, trying another position is just kind of for fun. Try to see, if not for great sex, for good laughs.

George Faller [00:30:45]:
We know great lovers are playful. Why not mix it up? I think even the positions that don’t work, you’re going to laugh about that and be like, what were we thinking to try this pretzel thing? I pulled a muscle. Like, that was, you know, it didn’t go the way expected, but there’s just something about people bringing different energy into the room and, you know, mixing it up a little bit and have some fun people.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:31:07]:
Yeah. Okay. Thanks for listening.

George Faller [00:31:10]:
Mix it up, baby. Mix it up.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:31:12]:
So some of you are interested in our work. We want to tell you where we are, what we’re doing. First thing is our couples retreat coming up in October. Right, George?

George Faller [00:31:20]:
October 4th. Yes. Online. This is a chance to just spend a little time with your partner. We guarantee you’re going to kind of come out of that training with more things to talk about sexually.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:31:32]:
Yep. And we’ve got an early bird special right now, so take us up on it and join us for a day of talking about sex.

George Faller [00:31:39]:
And for therapists, we have two trainings coming up. We have one in September 18 to 20 in Las Vegas, where Laurie and I will just be kind of brainstorming and really pushing the leading edges of kind of EFT and the sexual cycle. We’re excited about that. And then in January 23rd to 25th, we’re coming to Nashville in person to do three days of really kind of breaking down this process. And again, I think this should be mandatory for all therapists to just kind of have more confidence in knowing what to do and work with the sexual cycle.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:32:11]:
Yeah, we’ve already had lots of signups for that. By the way, George, people are also taking advantage of that early bird special. You know, we want supervisors to come. We’re giving half off to the supervisors. So please join us so that we can kind of get on the same page and understand and develop eft further. There’s going to be two days of lecture and exercises and then a day maybe with a live and, you know, working on your tapes and your stuck places and we’re going to go down to the Honky Tonk and have dinner together and have some fun.

George Faller [00:32:45]:
Have some fun.

Dr. Laurie Watson [00:32:46]:
Have some fun. Yeehaw.

George Faller [00:32:48]:
Yeehaw. And for all you listeners, again, if you have a community and you want Laurie and I to come out and give a specialized training on sex, and again, I think this is so important for anybody seeing couples, then, you know, reach out to us and let’s continue to spread this message. Yeehaw. Call in your questions to the Foreplay question voicemail. Dial 833M.Y. 4Play. That’s 833M.Y. The number 4Play.

George Faller [00:33:15]:
And we’ll use the questions for our mailbag episodes. All content is for entertainment purpose purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for therapy by a licensed clinician or as medical advice from a doctor. This podcast is copyrighted by Foreplay Media.

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